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Saint Valentine and
the Irish Connection
by Kat Behling
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A shrine to Saint Valentine in Dublin's Whitefriar Church. The saint's remains are reported buried in the casket shown below the altar. |
The month of February has long been associated with love and romance as flowers, cards, candy and gifts are exchanged between sweethearts in the name of St. Valentine, the patron saint of love. But who was this mysterious saint - and why the celebration in his name?
Although there are several versions of the origin of the holiday, one popular legend harkens back to third century Rome where a young priest named Valentine served during that time. When the emperor Claudius II, decided that young single men made better soldiers than those with wives and children, he decided to ban the sacrament of marriage, therefore strengthening his crop of potential soldiers. However, Valentine rebelled against the emperor, continuing to perform marriage ceremonies in secret. Upon discovering the priest’s defiant actions, the emperor was outraged and ordered him imprisoned and put to death. It is believed that while in prison, Valentine fell in love with a young girl who often visited when the first “Valentine” card was allegedly sent. On the eve of his death, he composed a letter expressing his love for the girl and signed it, “From Your Valentine,” a sentiment still used today.
The Christian church commemorates St. Valentine’s death and burial on his feast day of February 14th. But it was not until the Middle Ages that the day became popularized as a holiday in England and France.
In 1836, Pope Gregory XVI sent a gift to the Carmelite Church in Dublin – it was a small black and gold encrusted casket containing the remains of St. Valentine. The relic had been exhumed from a cemetery in Rome and brought to Dublin, where the casket was ceremoniously enshrined within the church.
Today, the casket is carried in a solemn procession to the high alter inside the tiny church on Whitefriar Street in a special Mass dedicated to those in love each February 14th.
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The Claddagh Ring |
The Claddagh Ring: The Irish Symbol of Love
The Irish Claddagh Ring is a century’s-old symbol of love, friendship and loyalty. The ring originates from the old Claddagh area in Galway City. Two hands (symbolizing friendship) hold a heart (symbol of love) with a crown on top (symbol of loyalty).
There are symbolic meanings as to how the ring is worn. When worn with the heart pointed toward the wearer’s heart, the bearer has found a life-long partner. However, if the ring is worn with the heart pointed toward the fingers and away from the heart, the bearer has yet to find his/her true love.
Valentines Day Rituals & Superstitions
- It was believed if a woman encountered a robin flying overhead on Valentine's Day it meant she would marry a sailor. If the woman saw a sparrow, she would marry a poor man, but be very happy. If it was a goldfinch she saw, her husband would be a man of great wealth and importance.
- If an apple was cut in half, the number of seeds found inside would be an indication of the number of children one would have.
- To be awoken by a kiss on Valentine's Day was considered lucky.
- For a lady to sleep with a sprig of rosemary pinned inside the pillow on the eve of Valentine's Day was thought to encourage dreams of her future sweetheart.
- The tradition of using an "x" to represent a kiss began in the Middle Ages with the practice of allowing those who could not write to sign documents with a simple "x". With the passage of time, the letter "x" used at the end of correspondence came to be synonymous with a kiss.
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A Rose is a Rose is a… The most popular flower in the world not only symbolizes beauty, but has long been associated as the universal flower of sweethearts and believed to have been the sacred flower of Venus, the Roman Goddess of Love. Interestingly, when rearranged, the letters “ROSE” form the word "EROS" - the God of Love.
Different colors symbolize different sentiments, so it is wise to keep this in mind when giving roses:
Coral: Desire
Yellow: Joy, Friendship, Hope, Freedom
Lavender: Enchantment, Uniqueness
Orange: Fascination
Peach: Modesty, Gratitude, Admiration, Sympathy
Pale Pink: Grace, Joy, Happiness
Dark Pink: Thankfulness, Friendship, Admiration
Red: Love, Respect, Courage
Deep Red: Beauty, Passion
White: Innocence, Purity, Humility
Black: Farewell
Also the size and quantity can have specific meanings as well:
Single Red Rose in Full Bloom: "I Love You"
One Dozen Red Roses: "I Love You"
Tea Roses: "I'll Remember Always"
It is interesting to mention another flower associated with Valentine's Day is the violet, which according to legend grew outside the window of the jail cell where St. Valentine was imprisoned.
In the language of flowers, the violet symbolizes faithfulness; while a violet stone - the amethyst - is considered lucky for sweethearts. |